SIX KIND OF WOMEN YOU MUST AVOID

A Woman Who Doesn’t Believe

This is the most important factor of all.  Since we are commanded to not be unequally yoked with non-believers, then how much more so should a man not even consider dating someone who doesn’t believe (2 Cor 6:14)?  A Christian man should never consider dating an unbeliever, just as no woman should ever think about dating a non-believing man.  It’s foolish to think that you can date her and

lead her to saving faith in Christ. This could certainly backfire on you.

Women Who Don’t Put God First

This may be one of the greatest factors for men to consider in not dating a woman.  If a woman never puts God first, then she may be putting herself first.  If she doesn’t put God first then she’ll likely have you way down on her priority list too.  No woman or man for that matter should ever be dated who doesn’t seek God and His kingdom first and foremost (Matt 6:33).

Women Who Don’t Like Children

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 Men should avoid dating any woman who doesn’t like children because what happens if this arrangement leads to marriage and later on, there are children born into your family.  You can sense how she might be around children in church or in public but you can also tell by her regard for children in general, during conversations.  There is nothing more revealing about a person’s character than in the way that they react to children when encountered.

Women who don’t Pray

If you are considering dating a woman but have never had any inclination that this woman prays, then this could be a sign that she would not be a good match for you.  I believe that prayer is the pulse of the believer’s spiritual life and if there is no prayer, there is no pulse.

Women who Speak ill of their Parents

Do you know how this woman treats her mother?  How does she speak about her father?  Is there a good relationship with her parents?   If you have started to date or are considering dating a woman, first meet her parents or ask her about her parents and see how she speaks about them?   If there is no natural respect or love for her parents, maybe you could ask her why.  No one has perfect parents of course but that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t still try to honor them.

Women with Warning Signs

Another type of woman who men should not consider dating is one that drinks in excess or has a substance abuse problem.  There are warning signs that are sometimes present like drinking early in the day or taking an inordinate amount of pills, even if they are prescribed.   She may have a valid reason for taking medicine but if you sense in your heart that something is wrong ask her why she might be taking certain medications and ask why she has to do so.  There is nothing wrong with asking someone you are considering dating a few questions if you have concerns.  A woman who’s not trying to hide anything shouldn’t have any hesitations in addressing your concerns.

Conclusion

Before a man dates any woman, be as sure as you can be that she’s been born again and has shown fruits of conversion (John 15).  Dating can often lead to marriage but no marriage is always better than a bad one because it could lead to a potential divorce and God never intended for a man and a woman to divorce but to marry until death